Saturday night and last night the Christmas celebration at church took place. It was themed "Let the nations be glad". I went last night and was so encouraged! The choir did a great job, the children were adorable, and the dancers were beautiful. And of course Aaron was awesome. I could tell he was singing as loud as he could the whole time and it sounded so good! Most importantly, the scene of Christ's birth and his purpose in fulfilling the prophesies of the covenant of grace were portrayed very profoundly. It was worshipful. 
Vivian went, too, and she was so proud of her dad! She did great considering it was way past her bedtime. Mom, Dad, and Michael sat with us to help keep her entertained quietly. About 3/4 of the way through I took her to the nursery so she could play.
Yesterday Granddaddy and Grandma Carolyn came up from Pinehurst to have lunch with us and to celebrate Christmas. Mom cooked a great meal and we hung out at the Flores house together and opened some presents. Vivian opened her first!
She really just wanted to eat it at first.
Hmmm...what's that?! It looks fun!
I love my Raggedy Ann! Grandma Carolyn made this doll for her. It's precious.
Mom's pretty mantle. Can you pick out Vivian's stocking? :)
This afternoon we tried to take some Christmas 2008 pictures as a family. The problem was that we had no one to take the picture, so we were trying to get a perfect picture by ourselves (right background, right placement, right Vivian smile...), by setting up the camera with the timer. What were we thinking? It was a fiasco! But we did get some good pictures of the baby by herself. Here are some outtakes of our Christmas photos:
HA! I just noticed how bloodshot Aaron's eyes are...he had just woken up from a nap. Everything about the situation went wrong. Vivian spit up on her dress and my sweater, for example (and after the photo shoot pooped down her tights and up her shirt).
The ladies ate together and talked about the Christmas program, preschool, and the facebook phenomenon.
The men stayed in the kitchen. Aaron told me later that they mostly talked about Jesus Christ and him crucified.
Then we moved to the living room to play games. Their house is so nice!
Part of the reason for the get-together was to wish Jeremie good luck on his big test today (something to do with his job as a firefighter). Tabitha brought a cake.
Vivian was really curious and loved touching Julia's head. Julia was patient and tolerated it. My girl had been pretty cranky Thursday and yesterday...I think it could have been because of the flu shot she got in addition to her other vaccines? She's much happier today.Today we went for Vivian's 6 month well-check. Quick stats:
15 lbs, 9 oz. (5oth percentile)
26.5 inches long (75%)
17 inches head circumference (75%)
She got more shots and turned purple in the face, but was okay 1 minute later. I also took her down to the lactation consultant's office so we could do a before-and-after weigh-in, so I can know how many ounces she's getting when she nurses. It wasn't great news...just as I suspected, she's only getting about 4 ounces! Dr. Beazley said not to worry about it since she's growing well, but I'm waiting to hear back from the LC to see if I need to do something different. She never cries because she wants more, and even when I try to supplement with formula she won't drink any, which tells me she's full. ??? Maybe 4 ounces is enough to fill her little tummy?
Well, everyone's in bed (yes, even Aaron...he crashed around 8 pm! He's been working a lot) and I finally have a chance to catch up on blogging! Sorry for the dry spell. Life has still been happening, though! There are several posts below to make up for the recent lack.
Today we had a pleasant surprise...Aaron came home during his workday for about 30 minutes to hang out with us! He and I decorated the small tree together. We use this tree to display all of the special ornaments we've collected. Check out how Vivian just sat and watched while we did all the work...how rude! :)
Whenever Aaron comes home, Vivian is all grins. She turns her head or body however she needs to just to stare at him.
The day after Thanksgiving another one of Vivian's friends was born at Roanoke Memorial! Adam and Kathleen Renard welcomed their baby girl (surprise!) at 6:49 a.m. Her name is Charlotte, and she weighed 8 lbs, 1 oz. (someone correct me if I'm wrong on the ounces...). Tonight was my first chance to meet her. Vivian and I took dinner over to their house. She is a sweetie! They are a happy family :)
The church (Crystal) organizes meals for new parents for 2 weeks after the birthdate. It was so awesome to have that when we were trying to figure out how to take care of Vivian in those first weeks.
On Sunday night Billy and Crystal came over to eat. We were glad they brought their two girls, Gracie and Ava! These girls are so cute and full of energy. It was fun to play with them while the men had their theological conversations about sacrifice and evangelism after dinner. 
We were pretty relaxed on Saturday as a family...all three of us took a nap at some point during the day. And that night we all went to the mall to see if we could find a Christmas dress for the baby. Success!
On Friday night Ryan, Sarah, baby Hurley, Carissa, and Keagan came over for a dinner date at our house. It was a great combination of friends. We hadn't had a chance to get to know Keagan yet, so that was fun. He and Carissa have become really good friends. We talked a lot about babies (because Ryan and Sarah are having one in March), and Starbucks (because Carissa just got a big promotion there!).
And last night Aaron and I went to a youth leadership meeting, so Tina babysat. Terrible thing that Vivian had her first bout of bad gas pains...Tina said she started crying (screaming) 5 minutes after we left, and didn't stop for 2 hours (about 10 minutes before we got home). My heart was broken into little pieces but when I went to get her out of her crib this morning she was all smiles! No more eating blocks... :) (actually, no more sweet potatoes).
Before the terror started. Poor girl. And poor Tina!
If you live in near Salem, come to our church's Christmas celebration! Aaron will be singing and it should be awesome. I can't participate this year because I haven't been to choir practice since Vivian started having an earlier bedtime. But I did help Gretchen teach the children how to sing Away in a Manger in Spanish! It will be precious! Let me know if you need directions.
Thanks for letting me steal your scanned image of the invitation, Shannon :)
Last night I was blogging the picture below and Aaron wanted to participate. He wrote his caption, and I also posted what I would have written... can you tell which post is his? :) We need him to post more often, I think.
In an earlier post when Vivian turned 5 months, I wanted to name some things about her at this age. I know I'll forget important things, but here are a few things we want to remember:
Vivian:
-is still eating every 3- 3 1/2 hours. She could do well on a 4 hour schedule, but her naps make it difficult to do that
-naps poorly...continues to wake up at the 30-45 minute mark and can't get back to sleep, even though she's still so sleepy! We're working on it.
-sleeps 12 hours at night, from 7:00 to 7:00 or 7:30. She usually wakes up somewhere between 3:30 a.m. and 5:30 a.m. to eat.
-loves her exersaucer. She can play in it for 20 or more minutes by herself and be very content. It helps when I need a shower or to do laundry! Most of the time she isn't as interested in the lights and sounds as she is in what she can get in her mouth.
-is easily persuaded to smile. She is very social with everyone.
-figured out that she can move her wrists about a month ago. It's hilarious because I catch her just moving them back and forth...I'll have to take a video of it so it makes more sense. It helps her to manipulate toys.
-plays with her feet when she's eating. She rubs them back and forth together...another video to come on that!
-loves her dad!
-reaches for your face when you're holding her. I love it because once she's got her hands on you, she brings your face to her mouth and give you a big slobber kiss. It's so sweet!
-gets her paci to her mouth and sometimes gets the right end in, but even if she does, she hasn't figured out that she needs to let go with her hand, so she just pulls it right back out
-has been playing around with solids for more than a month (well, her mom has...she did great with rice cereal from the beginning, but I haven't made a progression towards anything else). We plan to get serious this week...she had avocado yesterday and did okay!
-is sitting up very well, and rolls over sometimes.
-is a drool machine. I have to change her bibs 4-5 times a day because they are soaked!
-is a sweetie! We are loving to see how she is growing and changing!
think it's time to put away the infant bouncy seat? I caught her trying to sit up and get out of it last night :) The sad thing is that she never really got in to bouncing in it much.
These posts below are out of order and I'll fix that soon. But enjoy pictures of the little girl's first Thanksgiving! She had a great time seeing so much family. We have so much to be thankful for!
Fernandez Family
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This blog is a way for us to journal about the fun events and milestones of our days as husband and wife and new parents. Enjoy catching up with what's going on in the Fernandez family!
Aaron and Lisa
Married December 18, 2004
Vivian Gray: born June 18, 2008
Kate Leigh: born August 5, 2009
Hank Michael: born August 8, 2012
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