On Friday, Vivian and I had a mommy/daughter date to see Sesame Street Live! We were invited by her preschool and sat with them. I had been looking forward to taking her for a while now...she loves Elmo! She sat still for the most part and it was a great experience for her.
This is a post that probably only family might want to see...lots of pictures of family from Thanksgiving, strange faces to most of you. Uncle Rick took these pictures for us. I didn't really sort through them so a lot of them are the same shot at different angles. Just wanted to keep these on the blog to remember our time with Aaron's family! I'm still trying to get the pictures that Maria took with her camera...she got lots of Vivian that day.
I just realized that some are too small...I'll go back and fix it later!
Today for the first time in Vivian's life, she did not sleep for her nap. At. all.
She was in her crib for 3 hours and did not sleep. At. all.
She played, jabbered, had a BM (which I had a hunch about, so I went in and changed her and put her back down), and I guess just laid there.
Ha!! Crazy.
Dad played some songs for Kate when he got home from work tonight.
If you can remember, around this time last year he was doing the same for our little Vivian:

Love these stockings that my mom made for us. Poor Kate doesn't have one this year since she's new (hint, hint Gramme :))
These are for holding Christmas cards. Please send us a Christmas card! We love getting them. If you need our new address...email me. We will try to send some out so that you will send us one in return!
Have to include a picture of Vivian with the decorations she's not allowed to play with...
Maybe we'll put up the tree by this weekend! Stay tuned for more.
love that bald spot
Can this be comfortable?
I love a chance to wake Vivian up from a nap. It doesn't happen often, so I stand there and watch her sleep for a few seconds. So sweet.
We had a very eventful Thanksgiving!
We left Wednesday night at bedtime so that hopefully the girls would sleep the whole way (Kate did, but it took a while for Vivian to relax and fall asleep). We headed straight for Spring Hope to be at the Fernandezs.
Thursday was a big day...the big party for Aaron's side of the family. There were lots of uncles and cousins for Kate to meet. Vivian napped during lunch but was able to play a little when she got up. The younger cousins kept her very entertained! The lunch was the best we've had at a Fernandez Thanksgiving :)
We left early to skip over to Lucama for my dad's side of the family get-together at Granny's house. More great food of course! We were really late so we missed some people, and we didn't get to stay very long because both babies were getting tired, but it was fun to see everyone and for Vivian to play with her cousin Hannah. I think she was very confused to see Papa and Gramme there. Actually, I think she stayed confused pretty much the entire trip!
We went back to Mike and Peggy's so that we could hang out with them on Friday morning. It was good for the girls to have some one-on-one time with their Papi, Grandma, Uncle Ben, and Aunt Brooke.
Raleigh was our next stop...just in time for Vivian's nap. We relaxed a little that afternoon and then went out to the movies at North Hills. I love Raleigh!
Saturday Aaron and I went to the State/UNC game at Carter-Finley and left the babies behind. State has had a terrible team this year so we weren't expecting much, but they pulled it off and beat Carolina! It was a great game to watch.
Grandma hosted a big Thanksgiving dinner at her house that afternoon. We were late, but just in time to eat, eat, eat! And we saw dear family.
We were in the car at 7 pm on Saturday night to head back home! What a whirlwind. Vivian became a little overwhelmed during the trip, and none of us slept very well away from home, but she is recovering and we are catching up on our Zzzzs. All in all a fun, family-filled Thanksgiving in NC!
I am disappointed in my lack of photos. I will try to get some from other people that had cameras.



Remember this picture from August? Same couch at Papa and Gramme's house. She is growing so fast!
Vivian had fun playing with both of them during the time they were here.
Vivian went trick-or-treating with Uncle Joey and Aunt Sierra in their neighborhood on Halloween night. She was really late for bed but it didn't phase her because she had a blast! They got her a pumpkin costume and it turned out to be very cute on her.
Lindsay's (Sierra's sister) boys Carter and Chase usually go with Joey and Sierra and this year they let Vivian join them.
Chase is Batman. Maybe he and Carter will let Vivian come again next year.Since we didn't get to go to our church's Reformation Celebration that Wednesday because of our move, I put the costume on her for church on Sunday, too. She looked funny because she was the only one dressed up, but it was fun for us! Thanks Joey and Sierra!
I already posted about this, but here's a video of Vivian reading to Kate. Notice how she pushes Kate's hand away in the beginning.
Lots of people have been asking about how we are adjusting to the new house. Jill asked me what the pros and cons are and I thought it was a good question with bullet-point answers, so here it is for anyone who's interested!:
Cons:
-It is difficult to get used to 4-story living. I feel like I go up and down the stairs all day. We have a basement where the laundry is; the main level with kitchen, dining room, living room; a level with the bedrooms and bathroom; and an attic that we use as a closet, playroom, and movie room. I try not to carry both girls up/down the stairs at the same time, so sometimes I take Kate first and have to leave Vivian at the gate, watching me. Thankfully I think she realizes that I am coming back to get her and she doesn't freak out.
-We have TWO trains that run around our property...one in the back and one out front. We can see both of them and can definitely hear them both. They run all night long. All of our neighbors say that we will get used to it and not hear it after a while...we are looking forward to that day.
-Not everything has a perfect place. Yet.
-There are bugs everywhere. Stink bugs and ladybugs.
-We know there are mice and snakes on the property. This is real country living out here! We are going to get some outside cats asap.
-I miss my brand-new kitchen in our old house.
-The radiators take up so much space and make for awkward furniture placement.
Pros:
-Wayne did an awesome job on all the bedrooms...they look new!
-I love the fireplaces. Aaron has built a couple of fires since we've been here and it's awesome. We have a fireplace in our bedroom.
-There is much more closet space. No more bins under our bed with all of Aaron's t-shirts and jeans in them.
-The land is gorgeous and the view is beautiful.
-Our neighbors are wonderful.
-We live very close to my parents, which is great when I need help with the girls or when Vivian is dying to see her Papa and Gramme.
It might not be as comfortable yet as our old house, but my husband and babies are here and that's all it takes to make it home.
I took Vivian to the local library to the Family Movie night on Tuesday. They were showing the movie Up. It started at 6, so I knew we would leave by 6:30 to come home for bath and bed, and I'm glad I didn't plan on seeing the whole movie because this chick only lasted for about 15 minutes. She was so squirmy! She wouldn't sit still. It makes me think twice about trying to go to Storytime after the holidays.
Before the movie started, she sucked down the entire CapriSun (it was her first) in less than 5 minutes.
I found some older pictures when uploading last night and I don't think I ever posted these. These are from 2 months ago I think.
I love love this picture of Vivian, even if she does have some sort of food on her lip :)
The first hunt on our new property was very fruitful. My neighbor, Spencer, and I killed three. Two does and a buck. It was a very exciting hunt because we watched these deer for a long time before we let the hammer down. Our other neighbors said it sounded like WWIII in the back yard. Vivian enjoyed playing with our bountiful harvest. Once she realized what the red stuff actually was, she smiled.
All the meat is in the freezer and Lisa is researching out the best deer recipes.
While I was kissing Vivian goodnight a couple of hours ago, Aaron got Kate to laugh at him! I was a little sad that I didn't hear her first giggle, but it makes me excited for tomorrow because I am going to try all day long to hear it myself.
Tonight Aaron did a gracious thing and took us out to dinner. We girls needed to get out of the house...the rain has kept us inside all week! We went to our usual hot spot...K&W Cafeteria :) We like it because we get our food quickly and also because they have lots of choices for Vivian. She stuffs her face every time we are there...it's amazing how much she can eat.
One thing I forgot to add in her update post is that she's learning how to use a spoon and a plate, etc. It's going well so far...not too many messes. She usually can't get very much on the spoon at one time so it just takes a long time at meals.
Look at those full cheeks! She puts more in before she finished swallowing the previous bite.
Yes, we all stayed in our pajamas today. Cold and rainy here...Fernandez Family
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This blog is a way for us to journal about the fun events and milestones of our days as husband and wife and new parents. Enjoy catching up with what's going on in the Fernandez family!
Aaron and Lisa
Married December 18, 2004
Vivian Gray: born June 18, 2008
Kate Leigh: born August 5, 2009
Hank Michael: born August 8, 2012
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